sexta-feira, 10 de junho de 2011

Virtual loneliness

A time ago when only us could speak with
quelqu' if we were physically close. At that
time, it there only s' possibility had; to initiate
relations, if to increase the net d' friends, to
be made contacts professionals or social: to
promote meetings, to mark places, schedules
if to meet, so that know. And if us n' were
not with quelqu' one, if n' did not have with
which to be, result, very frequently, has
loneliness. To only feel n' was not, much of
time, an option, but a contingency, c' was s'
to live in a place moved away, or will have
little or no option d' one familiar or social
relations. Nevertheless, since the ends of
century XX, technology has comes while
transforming ours social relations. While
advancing in a difficult speed d' to
accompany, comes in mettan from attractive
resources. Since then, it has broken the need
for being physically joined to speak, widen l'
to us; friendship, for to change emotions. We
are with to replace by the possibility of
speaking, of to change messages, vidéos,
photographs, not into important the place, l'
schedule, the distance, by connecting all to us
to all. We start with to save friendships that
if they lost in time, to find parents that
outdistance s' is moved away and will remake
relations which were lost by ways. And still,
are innumerable sites of relations which allow,
not only it I find, but to make new friendships,
to initiate new loves, other colleagues. Us we
add virtually by the style of life, by the
values, the activities of leisure, by the musical
taste. We are to replace by hundreds or
jusqu' to thousands of friends who s' add to
our nets of relations, who in them follow
virtually. Us let us start to be surrounding,
implied with much of people, time todo. Could
think itself that never quelqu' one, addition in
this virtual net, it could if to feel sorry for of
loneliness. We are so much, attaches with as
much others, which more now space for
loneliness would have. Nevertheless, l' human
heart still is even. And technology that in the
fences externement, nothing it fills
intimeement. Us innumerable sums aggregates
with the sites and with the nets of relations,
nevertheless, too little those which we
cultivate of affected that in they fill the needs
respondents. We start to live and to coexist
with loneliness virtual. That one of which they
in such way have virtually, but nothing they
s' do not worry not to cultivate really.
Loneliness only disappears when it passes to
being substituted by concern with close
relation, by devotion to similar, s' l' to import
with l' other. Thus, it will not be technology
that in it s' will move away from loneliness. It
still s' it makes gift, ours to exist, because we
do not live them intensely values of
solidarity, the compassion, of fraternity. And,
though technology develop, by more
resources in it them offer, never it will
eliminate loneliness d' with l' interior of us. It
will be able, yes, to add thousands of names
in our nets of relations. Nevertheless, to fill
the needs of our heart, for which in him it n'
there has more space for loneliness, we need
to cultivate the fraternity, which can even s'
to initiate in the virtual world, but will have
qu' inevitably, it will migrate for reality of the
actions of our heart.

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