To have a good friend is one of the biggest
pleasures of the life. However, to be good
friend is one of nobler and more difficult
commitments. In the days that we live, he
seems that this commitment goes if becoming
more difficult. We grow to the side of
somebody, coexist, we become non-separable
friends. Then, one day, professional, familiar or
financial reasons, send in them to others
stoppings, very distant of the friends. The
years pass, the tasks if they multiply, the life
involves in them with as many things, and
time always goes if becoming shorter for the
friends… So distant. Therefore, some tips can
be placed in practical, in order not to lose this
preciosidade that if calls friendship. First: it
marks meeting. The frequency with that you
will be able to make this will depend on time,
distance, finances and many other factors.
However, if it will not be possible always, it
looks for to be personally present the least
one time per year. Second: it invests in the
telephony company. The telephone can
become an alive line of communication
between friends who are far one of the other.
Today, the company telephonic if performs
with care in offering to the user a price more
accessible that the competitor. He uses to
advantage. E thinks about its telephonic
account as an investment in its friendship.
Third: it uses the technology. It uses the fax,
the computer to send messages. It orders
e.mails, but it is not copying e.mails enormous
of the Internet, messages of others. Not. It
writes you yourselves, with its words. This
valley much more. Either soon. If its time is
precious, of the friend also it is. Removed
messages of the Internet are received to the
sets of ten, duplicates or tripled. They do not
have value the same. Its e.mail will be only e
is this that matters for the friendship. Room: it
sends photos. This is an excellent way of the
friend to know as we are. Its makes copies of
photos, in different places, in diverse
situations and orders, time or another one, to
the friends. Notinha does not forget to write
one in verse. To recognize its letter will be
always emotive. Fifth: they pass together
vacations. They meet in some place, between
vocês cities. It consults good colony of
vacation, hotels, places and combines to pass
one week having fun themselves and
renewing the friendship. They place papo in
day. They remember good moments and
produce others as much stop to remember, in
the days of separation that will become to
happen. Sixth: at least it says “oi”. If you will
be very busy, bogged in papers and
obligations, without time to breathe; If it finds
that it does not have conditions to write or
to telephone, exactly thus separates five
minutes to write in a postal card“oi, all
good”. Or then, apanhe the telephone and
asks: “all good, there? Even later” It keeps
the open lines of communication. Seventh: it
prays for its friends. The conjunct establishes
invisible lines of communication, to the time
where, equally, it will be supplicating the
protection of skies to the friend who, for
times, is passing for painful situation. It always
prays and with allegiance. It recommends its
friends the God, to the good espíritos. It is
possible that you do not obtain to follow all
these item, but tries, starting the least with
one of them. Because the only one half to
conserve a friend he is to be friend. *** He
invests in the stock exchange of the
friendship, every day. The profits always will
be compensators. One remembers: true friend
is that one that he shares all the sadnesses
and fold joys. Either friend! The glad friend is
as one day of sun, that he launches its
brightness in everything to the return. Either
one day of sun, every day.