Once a girl of eight was
stroll through the mall, close to
its
home with some friends. He saw a
Money
on the counter of a store and picked it up.
The clerk saw it and called him a thief.
He held her by the arm and led him to his
parents.
The girl was in tears, and parents
the situation has become desperate.
Some people waited more
parents beat and punish his daughter, but
parents wanted to educate them for life
and
show you how much they loved him.
Arriving home, parents have made some
thing
unusual. They gave the girl twice
value
she had stolen and told her she
was much more important to them that
all the money in the world.
They explained that the honesty and dignity
are invaluable because not all the same
the world's wealth is worth more than the
virtues.
The wisdom of the parents turned a
critical situation in a moment of magic
education, of extreme beauty, and daughter
never forgot that lesson.
Parents valued at more than his daughter
error. And that makes the difference.
Instead of punishment, education. Instead of
conviction pardon. Instead of
aggression, dialogue. Instead of
precision and love.
Parents, often well
meaning, they lose many
opportunities to teach children
Use wisdom and rigor that far and
infelicity.
Errors in the values ​​and others
not realize
the child asks for advice and
affection and
not punishment and condemnation.
They are the most difficult test of our son
capacity to love and educate.
Children often have attitudes that
seem to have the goal to get us out of
serious
to irritate us, but when we enter
in
their motivations, we realize
that the intention is
it is another.
What usually happens is that
and analyze the situation and unexpected
are precipitated in the reaction, causing
of
pain, suffering, and opened a huge
gap between us and our children.
It is important to take into account that
our children
are spirits in search of improvement and
they are perfectible.
Many are in search of the castaways
port
sure that our weapons can they
provide the name of love.
If you want to, frankly, the seedlings
fertile soil in the heart of your child,
seeds of happiness and hope to enter
in their inner world through the
dialogue.
Extend the bridge of understanding,
tolerance, forgiveness, benevolence,
affection.
There is no barrier that can
counter
power of love in action.
Think about it, and take action
necessary to
closer, very close to him, your
child
problematic, but extremely lacking
tenderness.
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More important than the rules of passage and
require
that their children obey them, to be with
them, talk seriously, to know their
true feelings and intentions.
Only someone who knows your history
student, can help you in the difficult art of
live, and live with dignity.