You already if felt, some time, the person most
incapable of the face of the land? He is until
possible that a time has happened for more than,
is not same? E why will be that this happens? We
go to reflect a little on this question. It considers,
in first place, that you are an only person, does
not exist nobody in the equal universe you. You
have an addition of experiences alone its. He has
only feelings e has limits that its are alone. Then, it
is probable that when trying to surpass another
person, he has the sensation of that is not capable
and if frustre. If a very on person you, for
example, initiates a course any, and you do not
have the minimum talent for this activity, you feel
inferior. If a friend starts a regimen stops to
emagrecer, and you are if feeling a little above of
the weight, he makes regimen the same and he
does not lose an only gram, feels it more
unhappy person. If, in the academy that she
frequents, the people to its redor makes feats
while you only it makes vain attempts, the will to
give up is almost inevitable. These, between as
much other situations, can to cause I discourage
and sensation of failure. However, when
admitting that you are an only being, and it does
not have in the universe nobody equal a you, all
the frustrations disappear. You, instead of looking
at around, trying to surpass the others, will
search to know its proper possibilities, talentos
and limitations, and will search to surpass itself
exactly. E then, each conquest, despite minimum,
will be a real victory. It considers that you, and
only you, must serve of parameter when is
about conquests proper. The conquests of the
others are of the others, e all had had or have
limitations to surpass or talentos conquered with
the proper efforts. It does not have doubt that we
can long for determined conquests that others
already possess, but we do not have to want to
have them ready. Each effort must be envidado
with lucidity, for the auto-overcoming, and not
for the overcoming of others. Something always
exists that you better make that the others and
something that the others make better that you,
and this is not reason to discourage. The true
largeness is exactly in to recognize this reality and
to accept it with maturity. Although it has a fort I
appeal social so that let us believe that we are a
mass uniform, that we must follow definitive
standards, us we continue to be only individuals.
It reflects on these questions and it has one
colloquy I obtain exactly. One analyzes with
affection and attention, to know its limits and tries
to surpass them, without neuroses. It knows its
talentos and it strengthens them, without been
improper pretensions. It searchs the auto-
overcoming and not it overcoming of the others.
It grows of form accomplishes, to be to each day
better that in the previous day. Better that you
exactly, and not better that the others. He does
not have clones of you and neither you are clone
of somebody, no matter how hard if she seems
another person physically. Not even twin
brothers are leveled in the experiences. Each one
has its limits e singular potentialities. It thinks
about this! You are an uneven spirit. He can until
imitating well other people very, but still in this
you will be always inigualável. Its perfume
spiritual is only. Its emotions are intransferíveis.
God created you so that is you yourselves,
nobody more. He thinks about this, and he
searchs to win the proper limits to be each better
day that in the eve.